Well as the question says... that keeps happening. I'm not sure why though, and it makes me feel like I am not doing a good job, even though he says it's good. This has happened twice now, and it never happened before that. Boyfriend thinks it might be the kind of condoms we use. Don't see why though, we haven't changed them from when it wasn't happening. Any ideas why this might be happening? I hope it doesn't get to the point that I get so insecure that we just stop all together...
Not your fault...probably just performance anxiety on his side. I'm sure he's a lot more worried and embarrassed than you are. Just try to be supportive and try to work through it. If he's getting hard and then going limp around the time the condom goes on then it's not medical, its in his head. Try keeping the stimulation going and putting the condom on for him...this will hopefully let him stay in the moment and keep his mind on more important things...like keeping it up!! Best of luck!
Anxiety. Has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO with any fault of yours. He is telling you the truth - that it still feels great. Congratulations on safe sex. DO NOT have sex without protection. Also I do strongly advise only have sex if YOU want it. (It's a given that EVERY teen boy your age and older wants it.) And people, the genie is out of the bottle - she is not going to just quit sex. Take care of yourself, and Good Luck!!
My suggestion, is not to have sex. I mean you're only 15. But I can't really stop you, I am just warning you. But yes it might be performance anxiety, or even erectile dysfunction. You are too young, just don't get into that stuff already.
It's definitely not you, and it's definitely not the condoms, and it's not because he's gay. There could be many many reasons, some medical, some psychological. He really needs to see a doctor.
Yea not highly recommended by the public... But sure did help with my peace of mind. U guys are right... I'm thinking back to basics too. Hooray for age appropriate making out!
Well im no smarty-Mc-Farty but it is possible he might be gay. Guys who are gay tend to become limp durig sex. But im about 99.999% positive that im wrong. Its just a geuss.
...and I just realized I gave sex advise to a 15 year old...I'm going to hell!
It could be something medically ...You might consider taking him to the doc's.
How old is he? Not unusual if he is a senior citizen.
Oh, and thank you for the advice... All of u guys.
Maybe he's over thinking it and getting nervous?
may be he has problem..