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What should I do about my nieghbor?

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Okay heres the deal. I watch my neighbors kids on mondays and wednesdays, for FREE to help her out while shes going to school. Which makes my father in law have to drive 20 miles to pick my son up from school. In return she is supposed to mow my lawn, help my son with his homework, and supply lunch for my daughter. With the homework she is mean to my kid and puts him down. They only mow my lawn once every two weeks instead of once a week. And as for lunch she gives me things I would nevet give my ten month old. She gives her two 8 month old twins peanut butter sandwitches, full grapes, whole kichen nuggets, fruitsnacks, and other adult foods. They only have two teeth! I am so uncomfortable giving her children these things. Her husband saw me cutting everything in pieces and yelled at me saying to give it to them whole! One of them started choking on a grape! Also I came to her house and her one sons leg was all torn up, scratched up, and bloody. I asked her what happened amd she told me she heard him.crying for 20 minutes. Then he crawled to her with the puppies teeth lached on to his leg! She acted like it was no big deal! This woman makes me extremely uncomfortable and I am worried about her kids. The problem is I am the only person who will babysit for her. Plus I live on a military base so I dont know what to do with out her doing something to get me kicked out of my home. Can anyone help me out and give me some ideas on how to fix the situation?