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My girlfriend is constantly doing things that make her look bad. She used 2 want a “miss may” aka playboy model belly button ring, and now she wants to get a rave belly ring, or a rasta one. She doesnt wear rasta, she doesnt smoke weed like American kids have given it representation as, and she isnt jamaican. She likes it because they are “pretty colors”.

 She thinks in her own little way and doesn't realize the way other people think, and I don't want her to look bad/trashy. Esp. being her boyfriend. She however flips out and says I don't let her be herself and don't let her wear things that I dont like, which isnt the case. 

Hell, we were even at her public jacuuzi one night with her 3 yr old nephew, Gabe(we are both 17) and there was of course people there. They thot that she was the mother. Then she asks gabe where her daddy is or what hes doin, so now not only did she look like she got knocked up at 13, but shes not even with the dad any more.
    And she doesn't even care. what do I do?
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Answer #1

you gotta chill and let yo girl be herself and if you can’t except it then maybe your the one with the problem.did that make sense…

Answer #2

you have to learn to deal with the stuff that she like and you should give a F**K about what people think about you or your girl

Answer #3

you have to tell her you except her foe who she is but theres just sumthing she has to change not for you but for her for future refrense and if she keeps on show her what you mean act like her in a bopyish way and trust me shell want you to change shell get it …shell no what it feels like to walk in your shoes

Answer #4

It’s good she doesn’t care, she shouldn’t. If people want to misinterpret things, let them. It’s none of their business anyway…

Answer #5

It’s just a belly button ring. I think people can tell if people do drugs.

Answer #6

its not, but I dont want people thinking im dating some hoe-bag, when im not.

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