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this guy that I've been with since april. if ya read my last 2 questions youll understand this one. anyways um okay now I have this guy that im close goodfriends with. well um I considered him my close guyfriend. anyways I dont maybe want to accept it now but I feel like I want to have true feelings for him on a boyfriend level. because we are only goodfriends an weve been good friends since 4 years now an whenever I do see him it always like refreshing an hes so pleasant to be around he so desent an respectful an nice, an his always pays me attention when were talking to each other and his always the true him never nothing odd bout him. and keep in mind his just a close friend of mines. an my boyfriend never treats me right an he always leave me hangin,he never callls me an um he pays attention more to his homegirls. he has to many homegirls. theres needs to be a limit to that. anyways I care about my boyfriend but he about to lose me an hes pushed me over the because he always mistreats me an he always goes an sits by his homegirls in church an not me an im his homegirls. an my close guyfriend always so mild-mannered an always so concern bout me. so what ya think?should I pay close attention more to my close guyfriend that pay me atttention an so concern for me?or let go of my up and down boyfriend thats treats me totally wrong an pays attention to his homegirls all the time?
The boyfriend has to go. The friend is a bit trickier. Because, I don´t know if you know, but we men, change completely after we have sex with "the female friend" he will stop treating you like a friend a start treating you like a girlfriend. It´s different, if you try it you´ll see. Ask yourself if you prefer to loose a friend and gain a nice boy as a boyfriend or keep him as just your friend. oh...your boyfriend, please, give me a break, DUMP HIM : )
hahahahahahha! This reminds me so much of my life LOL dump the dude and just try to get even closercwith him see if even if you get together and brake up that you will still b friends and being really close friends the relationship should work out essay better
