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My mum and I have had an arguement I told someone something she told me not tell and then she lied to that person. I know I have lost her trust please help me to tell me what I can do to regain the rust between us.?!
Talk to her, tell her that you achknowledge the fact that you made a mistake, and promise that you will never do it again, and try to make it up to her, doing extra chores or something to show that you are really sorry.
If you try these things and you really feel that she doesn't trust you or won't give you another chance, you could always try turning on the waterworks...
Be careful not to do it again though!
:)
I agree... Its a tough one for sure... But true apologizeing will really be worth to do... And saying that your sorry... (whit the wet cute little eyes :D) that will do it... But try not to do the same mistake again... this would be like your 2nd chance.. try not to destroy it again... cause I dont think there will be a 3th one... it might be... but it will be even harder then.. soo...
Well... promise her that you wont give a secret or anything like that ever again... Tell her that you did that because you were nervous and mad...and you did that from angryness, anyone could happen that, that you didnt mean to hurt her Or to give out the secret... Say that your sorry... its not like she won't trust you ever again cause of a little arguement...
Take care !!
Using crying as emotional blackmail isnt the way to gain anyone's trust... Trust isnt a privilege... It is earned. It isnt going to happen over night. Realize you crossed a line. In a big way. Then realize that people make mistakes. Then just dont do it again, and eventually she'll come to trust you. But you cant force something like this...
If you rated my answer.. thanks :) :) Im really glad if I helped.. I have been through many arguments with my mum (which im not proud of afcourse..) but I sometimes get pretty angry and do things which afterwords I regret about... My mum also... But on the end..things always get right.. Urs will too :)
Take care
but how could you?well she myt 4give you of because but gaining back her trust is a tough one.apologize to her anyway
