My mum wont let me shave

Ok so im 15 and yeah I shave my legs etc in secret because my mum thinks I dont need to at my age I tried talking to her but she ignores me, well razors never get rid of all the hair under my arms I mean like they are still dark after and on my legs I cant get to like curves in it, I want to buy veet hair removal stuff but if I shave in secret how can I do that, my sister is my twin but shes like not as mentally mature she went through puberty later than me so is still like a daddys girl but she goes everywhere wit me< another problem

Answer #1

honey…

okay…first off…at 15, many people aren’t shaving…keep that in mind…HOWEVER…if this is something you feel strongly about, then you need to tel lyou mother how not shaving is making you feel…

tell her that you’re a growing young lady and you want to look and feel like a young lady as well…

point out that shaivng at your age is NORMAL and you feel you’re ready. explain to her that you don’t like feeling akward and you’d like some more support from her as it’s difficult to you…

ask her if she’ll allow you to buy some razors and shaving cream and tell her you wantot be responsible for your personal hygeine…that you need to develop as a young lady…

if she refuses, then talk to your school nurse and explain to her the situation…most schools are willing to help you there, and you can ask the school nurse to speak with your mother…it shouldn’t be a problem…

then ask your mother why she is against you shaving your legs. ask for for a reason other then:

“because I say so.’ “because you’re too young’ “Because you’re not ready.”

see what she says. she might have another reason. good luck sweetie, hope this helps.

Answer #2

make a deal with her like when you get armpit hair you can shave your legs and pits. cause once you get that you need to shave. but don’t be in a rush cause shaving is a hassle. if your leg hair is still blonde and soft you can wait a little longer lol

Answer #3

At 15, you should be allowed to do all this by yourself. :/

She probably either doesn’t want you to grow up or believes shaving will lead you towards a more sexualized path.

Answer #4

why doesnt she want you too shave? I was shaving when I jsut turned 11, if she doesnt want you to then why dont you just hide the stuff in your room? she wont know, however once I used veet and I had a massive allergic reaction, I know you think it wont happen to you and I sound like a moanin old woman! (at the age of 16 haha!) but do the skin test!! The best razor I have EVER had is Venus, its amazing! However a little expensive as the replacement blades are £9 for 4. No matter what my friend uses or how often she shaves she always ends up with dark hair stubble under her arms! some poeple just cant do anything about it.

Answer #5

that suxx,, I started shaving in like 4th grade, but umm you shud deff tell your mom and c what she says. because if she cant come up wit a good reason mayb she’ll figure out that she is being rediculous… as 4 your sis,, tell her 2 shut her mouth. if your mom finds out she cant do much to stop it.

Answer #6

ok I started shaving without my mom knowing but I accadently cut myself and had a band-aid on my leg I forgot and put on shorts my mom saw the bavd-aid then she saw my razor in the shower I got in trouble but she let me keep shavin cause it was growin back like everyday it is something you have 2 keep up just talk 2 your mom you might get one of those boring lectures but, shell have 2 let you keep shaving just dont get caught trying 2 hide it tell her…confess. ull be in less trouble.

hope I helped

Answer #7

well I started shaving when I was 11 I know 11 but you could use veet or nair or whatever you like and then when you go have a shower right when you get in the bathroom put it on your legs and were ever else you want to use it and just pretend your going to the washroom and then telll your family or just go and have a shoower and wash the nair or whatever kind of stuff of your legs and use body wash to wash it of your legs so they cant smell it when you come out and you should be good as new …

                                     hope it helps !!!
Answer #8

ok. thats weird. just beg her until she finally gives in. I started shaving when I was 12 years old!

Answer #9

Hey I am 12 and I started to shave my arems and legs when I was 10!

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