My mom never listens to me

Well im 15 and im having problems with my mom. I have since I was a little girl my mom has 6 other kids all under the age of 11 and 5 kids over 15 my being the youngest of the oldest. I don’t know how to talk to her she blocks me out and doesn’t listen when she does talk to me she yells I know that she is stressed being a single mom but it feels like she hates me even though I know she doesn’t I have to talk to her about me I want to get married and im pregnant I want to tell her but I don’t really know how well she will listen to me and if she does im afraid she will yell. What do I say that will catch her attention and not make her yell?

Answer #1

I know but she will sign it I know because she was marrie at my age to a 29 year old I researched the Utah marriage Laws before I decided and I have a dad who will do anything for me who is also very rich! he will help me plus I have a job and so does my fionce.

Answer #2

I’m sorry but I know no mother who would support their 15 year old getting married . What’s the rush to get married any how? Exactly how are you going to support yourself? Also unless she signs a consent form, you can’t get married legally…

Answer #3

It’s unfortunate that she has that many kids if she cannot communicate with them more productively. I’d wait on the marriage. If you feel you want to have the baby, then work together with the father and help each other attain your goals-marry later, when you know that you’re marrying for the right reasons, not just for the pregnancy. Either way, though, the best you can do for your baby is to work hard to acheive your goals, never give up, and be the best mother, woman, and person you can be.

Answer #4

If her normal response is to yell… then.. regardless of how you tell her…you are pregnant… SHE IS GOING TO YELL.

Just prepare yourself for it, since she is not likely to change. This is her normal response… a learned habit… that would be hard to break.

I would suggest writing a note, and telling her exactly what you told us, and putting it where you know she will find it. Make it personal to her of course, and don’t leave out any of it. She needs to know how you feel, and she will have to help you deal with the pregnancy.

blessings…

Answer #5

well I have nothing to say but im sorry to here that.that happens to me sometime

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