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My Mom Is Hurting Me

Im 13 I dont have a dad he left 4 years ago. Im not close with my family no matter how hard I try to be. Things are getting bad with my mom. Shes compulsive. Shes obsessed with her house. For example if I need something (clothes, things for school and I dont ask for those things a lot) she always says she doesnt have the money yet she bought a $3500 floor & now shes getting our entire outside of the house done. And she just got her floor redone 3 months ago and her entire house redone last summer. I cant live at home because she yells at me for everything. If I walk on the carpet after she vacums I get yelled at & its the same thing if I get finger prints on the mirror. its stupid. I cant live with her & sometimes she comes into the room yelling at me & doesnt tell me what I did wrong. My friends agree that shes compulsive. & I dont know who to turn to because my entire family always takes her side. I dont know what to do. She hits me sometimes but not all the time. I cry in a closet frequently because things are getting worse by the day. I try to stay at a friends house but she yells more. I dont no what 2 do now.

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Answer #1

I used to go through the same thing when I was your age if shes as bad as it sounds then dont offer to help her that will just make her freak more. I think you should call kids help phone but you dont want to put your self in a foster home thats no better .. have a plan on where you can and want to go even try to find your dad if you can. theres always something better

Answer #2

aw thats sad, I never got along with my mom , infact my whole grade 12 year was full of fites, do you have any family members you can go live with? or maybe tell your mom you understand she needs help and offer to get her the help she needs, or phone the kids help phone. Your in a tough situation sweety, I hope it works out for you!

Answer #3

im sorry to hear about that.. I know that must be really hard.. I have a broken up family too, and my mom is that way a lot.. I mean she doesnt hit me.. but she yells at me.. like I fi leave tooth paste in the sink or something dumb, or for no reason at all. I guess what im trying to say is just try to realize that your not alone. and you should maybe eben talk to a councellor, that would probably help make you feel better. and maybe you have a grandma or a good friend or something that you could live with for a while? until things cool down. just hang in there. I hope this helped a bit. xo

Answer #4

I think you suold call the police

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