My Mom is an invader!

my mom is in my face 24/7…I Am going crazy! What can I do? She I invading my personal space such as my bedroom! Please help me before I snap.

Answer #1

Remind her of your age, and ask her to respect it.

Answer #2

my mom gets real annoying sometimes too but you probably just need to talk to her and tell her you need your space or just lock your room an chill ther

Answer #3

if she has reason to snoop around, be honest with her. if she is going in there just for the fun of it then ask her to respect your space and knock before she comes in or whatever. unless she is like my dad and claims the room is in his house and can do what he wants. he eventually stopped saying that and I have my own privacy.

Answer #4

well I hate to tell you what you not want to hear but its her space as long as she is paying the bills and talking care of you how much can you really say that was me about 5 years ago since then I have had a daughter and moved out let me tell you am all up in her space and shes only 4 lol thats my baby I want to know shes ok your mother feels that way about you dont take that from her thats somthing you will nver understand untill you have you own untill them repect her and she will let you grow up on you own dont give her a reson to be scared or disturstfull of you cause she will always be right their in your best intrest. trust me.

Answer #5

Talk to her about it. You’ll get no where otherwise..It’s completely normal for parents to want to know where you are going, what you are doing etc because they care about you and want to protect you. However everyone needs their own personal space. My mum used to go through my drawers..looking for my diary..Not Cool! So yea… talk to her, say, in the nicest way possible, that you would really appreciate it if you could have your own space sometimes and make sure you say that you know she is only looking out for you. Wish you the best of luck =]

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