My Love is getting tie with someone else

my self Mohd Ovais, I am fall in love with sanober and wanted to marry with her, this thing I tell to my aunty and grandmother that I want to marry with sanober. My aunty and grandmother meets with sanober’s grandmother and told all about me that ovais want to marry with sanober and he will marry with her after completing his education of one year. But her grand mother told to my grandmother that you should meet with her parent. further the grandmother of sanobe told to my grandmother that her parent are planning to marry her in there family itself.

I had just seeing sanober for the past three and a half yeari .e just we had an eye contact for this years. So my main question is what should I do to turns the minds of sanober’s parent that they should stop her getting married in the family itself?

About Me and Sanober: My age is 23 and I thingk her age is almost or near me.I live in front of sanober grandparent house. and sanober live far away about 15 km. from her grandparents house. she visits her grandparents mostly two or three time a month. I wanted to tell you some thing that I am like an introvert. from the past two year. And when I am with my friends in front of my house, I usually turn my eyes to her grandmother home whether she is there or not but sometimes she is there and sometime she is not. I am doing this for the last three years. Now my mai question wheither I am doing the right thing or not just let me know? The above question answer I got;;;

the thing is that the family member of sanober are so closed to her that they are visting on daily basis as her grandmother told to my grandmother. on request on my aunty my grandmother asked sanober grandmother that we had a ceremoney of my son on may 2009 so I want to invite sanober and family so please give me adresss. the grandmother advice that the sanober and her family member really ties with them. the man to whom she is getting married is the family member and they had a long back realationship. they almost going daily out there home. so I it right to interefere me in there relationships and tell my mom to go there and just meet the parents of sanober? as I don’t know sanober and the man whom she getting married is lover or not? so tell me or give advise about ot leave her or not? it’s really hard time for me ok.