How can I deal with my guy being a father?

you have to leave him alone now. he has a girlfriend and a baby on the way. if he does love you and wants to be with you then he will come to you. just let it be and go on with life the best you can. and whatever happens..happens.

Thanks everyone for your concerns. okay.

i was going to talk to him about it but suddenly yesterday he didnt come outside. There was also a party that was next to his house, so i went to check it out. My friend said that his lady juss came to live there today. I guess they were tru. I was real heart broken and felt like a loozer. i guess i wont see him as much as i do anymore. And it really sucks because he lives a block away from me. I might have to see him wit his lady on a daily basis.

Well seriously you have your WHOLE life ahead of you to be in love!!! Try not to rush things maybe it is just rumors! you never know! Try talking to him face to face and tell him how you fell and maybe he has feelings for you like yo udo him! And you said he has a girl friend? well then hunni he is long gone out of the picture! I bet you that there are a lot of guys waiting to tell you how they feel because you are a beautiful girl and trust me guys will come and go but friends are with you forever and when I say forever I mean forever!!!! hope this advice works for you swettie!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 Always your friend, Crystal 18 from Dallas Texas!!!!! if you ever need any help with any thing else then fun mail me k?

all of them or right listen don’t be foolish