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kk this ones long im sorry for the inconvienienec but I have a ton of problems and they are all making me feel like im snapping in 2 I've probably asked questions about individual problems but theis one pretty much sums it all up.
I am feeling so damn fat. I am 14 years old and am 5.5 hieght wise. I weight 105 pounds. I think I look really fat. I am low scale wise but I look so fat. I used to be fat but lost a lot of weight. I dont think im anorexic but some people are telling me I am and some people are telling me im fat even htough they might be jking I dk . im confused and wrried and scared.
My parents hate me becuase im acting all rebellios. I dont meen to im just going through a whole lot of stuff. ( I have a lot on my head ) and am irratabe at times.
My grades are slippping like crap becuas im always wrrying how I look and im getting really careless.
the girl I like really likes me back but the problem is we barely talk and I cant ask her out until wve talked for at leats a week. problem is I never get a chance to talk with her even though I can tell she wants me too.
my hair is so skrewed up. I decided to do a feauxhawk and I need to know way to style it with gel. also wats a good way to comb it when its not spiked up so that it will be easier to spike up the next time. Any feauxhawk tips???
I don't know I just have a lot on my head and some oppinions awnsers and good advice would be deeply appreciated . thanks
ok dude. first off you are not fat. you are the perfect size 4 a boy. I'm a girl, but I would looovvveee to be your size right now trust me. and dude ignore what people say about you. people will b talking about you FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!! that's the harsh reality of this world we live in. but you have to feel confident, love yourself, and find what makes you happy and when people see that you are confident and loving yourself, they won't try to break you down. people always talk about me, and do I care? no. because almost 90% of those people who are talking about me have some really deep insecurites about them and they don't want to show to the world, so they talk about other people to hide their shame. and about the girl you like, coming from a girl let me tell you, we girls LOVE when a guy approaches us and talk to us. so do it. the more you act nervous around her, the more she won't b that interested in you. :)
hon your not fat...your just fine...from what you describe... you have a lot on your mind... you need to let it all out... talk to someone you can trust and who you think can help you... am sure your parents doesnt hate you... just the attitude you may put to them... your parents are the best people to tell your problems...they might can help you... talk to them... just sit them down and let them know how you feel... good luck. my friend
u deff. need too relax. just enjoy life. you are still young. maybe tell your parents you want to see a councaler they help a lot. I seen sum my whole childhood and still do cause I was the same way and I now have depression. im also on meds for it.
