What do I do about my dad >=[

my dad has brought a lot of problems into my life and I because a mojor commotion ect

(a lot of bad things has happen, to scary to describe)any ways… my parents are divoced (my dad cheated on my mom) and I finlly got in contact with my dad and his living in georga with his slutty girlfriend (the one he cheated with)

he wants me to vist my dad doesnt understand that I dont wanna vist him I told a lot
and its creppy I cant bring my cellphone with me if I tell him off he keeps blaming my mom

ahhh what to do???

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Answer #1

There’s a few possible things happening.

Your Dad really is not being a good Father and only wants you to visit to make your Mother jealous or abuse you or make you or your Mother feel guilty, etc. If you think this is the case, you should CALMLY explain that you are not comfortable visiting him right now and that if it’s really important for him to see you, he should come and visit you.
Maybe your Dad is a truly nice guy who wishes he could still have a relationship with you even though you’ve had a rough history together. In this case, ask for you Mother’s permission & advice and go visit him just for an afternoon or something.

Answer #2

well wait till your cell phone contract expires and get a new one also disconect your home phonne change emails change anything possible so hee cant get in touch I wish you good luck xox emily

Answer #3

tell him to f-off, and tell him that to you he is dead, because he cheated on your mom, and you are ashamed to call that poor excuse of a man your father. Then stop talking to him altogether.

Answer #4

If you don’t want him involved with you, then he shouldn’t be able to.

You could tell him to leave you alone, and if he blames your mother just stand up for her. And tell him off.

And if he replies, just don’t take it personally and move on. :)

Answer #5

well I was in the same boat do what I did but I dont speak to my dad anymore cause my dad did worse but follow your heart ok you will be fine =-p

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