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My husband cheated and I hurt

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My husband had an affair after we were married for 20 years. He says it was "sex" in fact he was the one that dropped the bomb. I am hurting so much - I can hardly stand it. Its been less than 6 months what should I do? He wants to save our marriage and is always trying to make me feel better. He says he loves me more now than before. Just the thought of losing me made him realize how much he cares. He cries as much as I do - and both hold each other and cry together. Should I stay or should I go?