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K I been married for 3 in a half I we been living toghther for 2 years ... I have a 6 yr. Old girl a 4 yr. Old boy and I have a 2 yr old with my husband the thing is that he never haves time for us when we want him around he never can hes alaways busy if we go out and tell him to catch up he says ok but he never gets there. But when it comes to his friends hes always there for them he goes out and haves fun but I cant cause he never wants to watch the kids.. Iwhat like some body to give and advice I have talked to him over and over about this and he said he was going to change but its the same story I have asked him dose he feel enverased of me or what help please...
No, I'm sure he's not embarrassed by you. Although what he is doing is not fair, it is hurtful to you and your family and it is pretty common. Some men think they work hard all week and on their days off, they should get to do what they want without their wives giving them a hard time. They fail to understand that taking care of the house and the kids is a full time job too, without any days off. You need to tell him how you feel and let him know he is hurting your feelings, but you really can't threaten him or force him to spend time with you if he doesn't want to. Try talking to him about setting aside a "family day" at least once a month. Spend the whole day together at the park or just at home cooking dinner together and watching movies. Tell him that you expect him to be able to give up one free day a month to hang out with his wife and kids and that you're sure his friends will understand.
