my girlfriend cuts what should I do
Right. Blaming your for her cutting is just plain manipulative. She is unstable and needs help. You cannot provide this help. You telling her that it hurts you is not helpful. You trying to help her is also not helpful. Self harm is an indication that something is really wrong, and she has really poor coping skills, and so thats how she is dealing. Those are not things any amount of love can fix. She is a bottomless pit, there is nothing you can do to fill that emptiness. And its no ones fault. She just needs help that you cannot possibly give her. Take it from someone who cut for almost 10 years, and no amount of love and caring from others fixed the problem, she needs to get help from a counselor/therapist.
Honestly, I think you should leave her, she dosent seem like a very stable person, and that much personal baggage doesnt help relationships...and if all you do is have sex..then it doesnt sound like a healthy relationship either...just my opinion of course, but still, there isnt really a reason to cut yourself...most people I know that do that, do it for attention, and their to insecure about themselves and want the people around them to make them feel better about their sad and empty lives...
well first fiqure out why she cuts and thn go from there. like when I was starting middle school I used to cut becuzof the stuff that used to go on in my life maybetheres something happening and shes just not telling you about it. but for sure you need to gt her help because when I ddnt gt help I almost killed myself and I know you dont want her dead so gt her some help seriously!
My bestfriend does it too. I don't know if it will help for you, but when I told her it hurt me and I didn't like to see her sad she didn't stop. But I hope she can get better! Goodluck.
but she tells me she wants to and bi+ches at me for caring about her I say like I will never cheat on you and shes like prove it HOW THE F+UCK AM I SUPPOSED TO PROVE THAT!!!
Then when you go hangout with her, don't just have sex. Chill,watch a movie, cuddle, play a game, just do something else. Maybe hang out with fewer girls.
she says its because I hang out with too many girls and when I do hang out with her all we do is f+ck but thats cause she tells me she wants to
sit her down and talk to her about everything that's bothering her , tell her how much she means to you
Ask her why she cuts. Tell her you don't want her to anymore, talk to her about it.
if you really care about here you would sit here down and talk to her.
Kkz much luv for you peeps you help me through a lot
Talk to her about it. Try to get her help.