My friends dont like my boyfriend

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 weeks I know it isnt long but I really do like him, but my friends dont, they say I could do better and he’s angin and everything. It upsets me but I never say anything, I was talking to him once and they dragged me away saying it wasnt legal to talk to him. I just pushed them off me but he’d walked away, whenever he walks past they all shout eww and its starting to get to me because even if I could do better I wouldnt want to. At the end of the day none of them have boyfriends, I know that but it still makes me upset that they dont support me when I have always supported them when they’ve gotten dumped. One of my friends went out with a popular boy who dumped her for someone else and I was her houlder to cry on, but if I get dumped it’ll be I told you so and I just dont know what to do?

Answer #1

Kay, I may sound like a bad guy here. But my friend dated a guy that I really hated. He was mean and disrespectful to her, but she never really saw it. And he always treated me like crap. So I always said she could do better + stuff like your friends are. But I never forced her to make any decisions about it based on what I though about him. Me and her are no longer friends because he made her choose between her best friend and her boyfriend. And she had never had a real boyfriend before so she was stupid and chose him. He cheated on her, then dumped her and broke her heart. And she came back to me, and it really was a “I told you so” moment. But I didn’t really ever say that. I was right about him, and now she’s lost her best friend and her boyfriend. And made huge mistakes she can never take back. And was mean to the people who cared about her and wanted to help her out and realize how bad he was to her all the time.

But basically, my advice would be to just follow your heart. Maybe your friends are right about this guy, maybe not. Everything happens for a reason so just make the right decisions. Tell them that you need their support and that you’ve been there for them before and you need them to trust you about him. Good Luck. ( :

Answer #2

I feel for you so much honey, my friends are like that towards me and my boyfriend, well was, we have split up after 11 months, my friends hated my boyfriend, they were fighting in town and everything, and didn want to go out with me if I was with him. It upset me and my boyfriend so much, cause we loved each other so much, but the strain of my friends hating him, our relationship just couldnt work, he was always walking off, and telling me he wasnt good enough for me, because my friends were always saying, you can do better. I knew I couldnt. Your friends are not good friends if they are not supporting you. You say that they dont have boyfriends, well they just could be jealous, and is trying to split you to up. You and your boyfriend need to talk to them and you have to take control if you want to save your relationship with this boy =) Sit them down and ask why they have a problem with him, and say to them, that you really like this boy, and you want a relationship with him and that you just want support from them. Its difficult trying to make your friends like you boyfriend, but they need to start growing up and be more respectful towards you and your boyfriend. Hope everything goes well for you and your boyfriend =D xxx

Answer #3

those friends are not good friends kiss your boyfriend infront of them make them feel jelous

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