My friend's boyfriend?

My friend is completely head over heals in love with her boyfriend.. he likes her, but doesn’t want to get too serious with her right now.. I like him and he likes me a lot and we have more chemistry than I have had with anyone else before.. But reservations on both sides are keeping us from going any farther.. I don’t want to do anything to hurt her, but I know that either way she is going to get hurt.. to make matters even more complicated, my ex is bestfriends with the guy.. my ex still has strong feelings for me and my friends boyfriend doesn’t want to jeopardize his friendship as do I with his girlfriend.. we really do like eachother and he would break up with her to be with me, but im not sure if that is the best move.. any advice on the situation?? I know it’s sorta confusing but any help would really be great –also just so you know, we are all in high school

Answer #1

My advice for you Is that if you and this girl are really close friends It might not be such a great idea. But on the otehr hand you and this boy may really connect, its posible he might even have your children one day, you never know. and if you and this boy dont have a chance to be a couple you might always think about what could have happend if you guys had tried it out. Being that its hard for you guys to be together it would seem as if you would want it even more than if you guys wernt in this situation. My advice is to talk to your freind strait up. But definitly dont do anything behind her back, that would hurt her even worse. Also have this boy talk to her as well. And as for your Ex… Theirs oviously a reason that hes your ex and he should definitly not be appart of the cause.

Good luck hun :]

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