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How do I get back together with him?

Ok so my quesion is how do I get back together with him ? Im really good at dealing with other peoples relationships but when it comes to mine I just donno...ok so the problems we had were that we lived 2 hours apart , we only ot to see eachother every 2 weeks that was fine and all but,I we had some communication problems...umm so im seeing him in a few days and I was wondering also how do I bring up the topic of getting back together and asking him to give me a second chance?...how do I do that with out feeling like one of thoses ppls who are desperate to get back together with there ex ? Please I just need to know how to do this and do it in the right way if youve ever had to do this before tell me how you did it or if your friend or someone you know how did they do it?

Oh and if it doesnt go well what am I suppose to do with out showing him that im hurt ?

But I know I can fix the problems we had in the past its just the whole asking him out again thing that I need help on

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Answer #1

I know what you mean! Just talk to him normally about things that your interested in and when he’s relaxed when talkin to you, then kind of bring up the subject of relationships and then just say something like “Can you remember when we went to …” or something like that. Then just like say “that was fun” and maybe bring up a few of those to remind him of how fun it was with you and then just gradually and calmly say something along the lines of “I was wondering do you think we could get back together?” “I wonder what that would be like!?” Then let him tell you and if he says no then just say “ Ok thats cool” Or something like that. Then after about 5 seconds talk about something completely different maybe something that will make him laugh! I’m sure you will get other replys to your question but this is how I would ask him! Let me know how it goes if you want! Hope I helped x x x

Answer #2

This sounds harsh but you don’t simply those problems haven’t gone away, they’ll still affect your realtionship. I understand about missing someone and wanting to get back together but you have to be strong and get on with your life. However, if you are hanging out together again maybe things will just fall back into place naturally without any big dramatic begging session, if you’s are meant to be together then you’s will get there.

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