My Ex and the Holidays (bound to see eachother)

So, I was with this guy at the beginning of the year for about 3 months exclusively, and we broke up. Around August, I took him back. He moved out of state to go play basket ball and go to school in Detriot. We decided to continue our relationship long distance. He didnt have a job because he simply didnt have time, he was a full time student, and he played bball, so I would send him money here and there to help him out a bit. 3 months into our relationship, I started getting suspicious because I would look at the pic messages that he was sending me and noticed that he was also sending them to 9 other girls as well (most living in MI). I figured I had the right to call all of these girls considering I was providing his income…and all stood up for him and said they were just friends. I didnt understand why he would be sending other girls as many pics as he was sending his girlfriend. If anything, I shouldve been getting more pics. why do friends need that many pics of friends anyways? well the next day, he texted asking how I got theirr numbers, I told him, and a few hours later, he texted me saying he found someone else that understood his lifestyle a lot better than I did (if it werent for me, he wouldnt have a lifestyle) and that this chick treats him way better than I ever did, come to find out, she lives in Denton, TX, and he met her on Myspace (never seen her in person) I looked on his myspace, and he is already talking about moving to TX with her, and how she is his (wifey) blah blah blah…So this was all a couple months ago…and now he has kind of been texting me a little here and there, telling him how he is moving home…basically bragging to me about his new found life. And this wonderful older woman he met that treats him like a king, and blah blah blah…I know with it being Xmas, I am going to somehow see him, because his cousin is my best friend, and I know her whole family…I’m like part of her family…So I know that If I see him, Im going to see her…But I dont want to see him…I just want him to see me, and how good I look, and how much I dont need him, so he can want me back…Cause I want him to want me back…so he can feel the rejection that I felt when he dumped me…anyways, he is coming home wednesday, and I kinda need some advice on what to do…PLEASE HELP ME!!!