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We've talked and talked about having children, and we both agree that we want to but he says its creepy to "plan" it. We dont use condoms or birth control and havent for awhile but he wont cum inside of me because he says when it happens he wants it to be an accident... I think that if it hasnt already happened that it most likely wont. Any advice?
I think you need to ask him again if hes ready for children someone who thinks planning a baby is "creepy" doesnt exactly sound like soemone who wants to be a parent the best kind of pregnancy is a planned one the less you know about the pregnancy, the worse it is so planning it means youll know what day got pregnant also no parent should want there child to be an accident also there is semen in pre-cum so even if he doesnt cum inside you you could still be pregnant I would again, talk to him about his veiws and ask again if he really doesnt want to be a afther
I suggest waiting until you're married to have kids to make it easier on the kids.
But once you are I guess you can be sneaky and not use birth control when he thinks your not trying to have a kid. Hopfully the condom breaks!! Lol.
P.S. Please consider getting married before having kids!!!
That will be when you are married. Spontaneous! If you both can't control yourselves, and you plan to be married, do the right thing and become chaste until your honeymoon. Then fill your house. God will honor your covenant.
Well, it's still possible that he could get you pregnant, even if he pulls out. What difference does it make if it's an accident or if it was planned? Why does it matter to him?!
Let nature take it course, It will happen Once he gets into it so deeply he will not always remember to pull out.
