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My boyfriend. Please help me!

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Im 17, hes 19. We both had awful childhoods full of abuse, and were both eachothers first relationship. Weve known eachother for 5 years, and now we are madly in love. Hes kind of a loner, and the few ‘friends’ he does have, treat him like crap. Him parents always put him down too. Hes graduating late, and were not allowed to talk to eachother. The thing is though, lately hes been skipping class, not calling when we arrange it, and other things. Yet if we are together, there is absolutely no problem. I love him to death and cant tell if hes just being a guy, or what his deal is. He is very clingy, so I know im not being clingy, and there is no possible way hes cheeting on me, so dont even sugest it. What can I do to find out what hes thinking and encourage him to not fail? Oh, and he doesnt do drugs or alch, either. Please help!!!

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Answer #1

well maybe yu two need to just to sit down and have a long talk ask him whats wrong and ask him to tell yu whats wrong… make sure to let him know that no matter what yu will always be there for him maybe that will help??

Answer #2

he knows, and we do.

Answer #3

Ovisiously you both have and are going through tough situations. But it’s like bon Jovi said in “live on a prayer” you know. You have each other and thats all that matter if somethings bothering you tell him and if he starts to overreact them him you love him and want the best for both of you. But be strong.

Answer #4

ooh hard one try and find a way to talk to him then (this may sould mean but …) tell him he is being rediculuse explain you are only upset because you care about him and he is scarring you ask him to explain everything say I know you have been through a lot but this isnt going to help

Answer #5

tried it. he said hed try and make things better, yet here I am baysitting, he knows im here, and yet hes not answering him phone.:(

Answer #6

asker::: we cant spend more time together. were not even allowed to speak.

Answer #7

Ask him, spend more time together/

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