My boyfriend is my rapist and my babies' daddy

Hi I have two kids and there father had raped me 7 times I’m 16 I want to brake up with him but I’m scaried he will not be there for our kids.he loves sex he has done my sister a lot but he wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex with me . Should I brake up with him and risk him not being there for our kids what sould I do please give me some advice

Answer #1

Please get rid of him as soon as possible. Come up with a game plan and stick to it. You are better living in a tiny place and making ends meet on your own the exposing you and your children to such a monster. Your kids will thank you when they get older!!

Answer #2

You are in an abusive relationship. Go to the police and file charges. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn’t want him around my children. Do you want him to teach your kids that raping or being raped and being abusive is ok? There are lots of teenage mother programs with housing and food and job placement and daycare help. Get out of there quick before this escalates and he seriously harms you and/or your kids.

Answer #3

well lets analyze the situation… you stay with him 1. he rapes you again 2. cheats on you 3. he rapes the kids… you break up with him 1. he ay go psycho and do more then rape you 2. you and your kids could move on … my suggestion is to tell the police about him and break it off with him before it gets too fa. he has no right to rape you and being how he is has no right to be near the kids. it is probably better off for him not to see them until he gets some help or something. hope I helped and fun mail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~

Answer #4

I don’t know about “reporting him” but you really do need to leave him. Im a single mother and trust me its hard emotionally most of all but what that guy does to you is so sick and twisted. you need to leave him for your kid also if he’s twisted enough to do that to you who knows what he can do to your kid leave him now seriously really do it he doesn’t love and he probably never will

Answer #5

You need to report him! Why are you letting him get away with RAPING you? Thats just crazy. You need to tell the police so he doesn’t go raping other people, he needs to be punished for this. Just because hes your boyfriend doesn’t give him the right to have sex with you whenever he wants it. You need to get checked for STD’s and get put on birth control as soon as possible as well.

Answer #6

yes. I would I mean he might now be there for your kids or you but at least you will stop being abused

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