What if I have to pick my boyfriend or best friend?

Ever heard of chicks before dicks? In this case its true. Never EVER let a guy make you choose between him or your best friend. This guy is an insecure control freak.

In a relationship, two people should be constantly growing..together..they should be sharing ideas, hopes dreams..the hope is that you grow parallel and not apart..and everyone needs his or her own space..if you are emotionally happy you will not be threatened by your partner needing time away or from asking for time for yourself.

1 in 4 teens who have been in a serious relationship say their boyfriend or girlfriend has tried to prevent them from spending time with friends or family; the same number have been pressured to only spend time with their partner.” On a related note, extreme jealousy and possessiveness are very bad signs in a dating relationship. For any teenage girls reading this, if you have a boyfriend who acts extremely jealous if you so much as talk to another boy, you may be tempted to feel flattered by his jealousy. But don’t. Extremely jealous boyfriends also tend to be very controlling and emotionally abusive. They want you all to themselves and they may even start trying to force you to cut back on the time you spend with friends and family members. They say they act this way because they “love you so much,” when in fact the real reason they behave this way is to try to control your every move. They want you completely under their thumb. They may have deluded themselves into thinking that they love you, but what they are doing to you is not loving behavior.