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my boyfriend gets hurt and I dont know what to do

my boyfriends father beat the ever living shit out of him. I don’t know what I can do for him since we live so far apart. pretty much all I can do is tell what I would do if I was there w/ him. do you have any suggestions on what I could do for him??? to let him know that I love him w/ my heart would do anything to take him a way from his horrible home?

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Answer #1

You absolutely HAVE to tell him that he must tell an adult, a teacher, a neighbor, a family member, any responsible adult that he can trust. It is extremely important that if he is getting hurt in his home, he get help for it as soon as possible. If he doesn’t want to tell anyone about it, you are going to have to tell someone. Even if he doesn’t want you to, if you care about him you must do the right thing and tell a trusted adult. This is very serious, and if you are ever concerned that he’s in immediate danger, please tell him to call the police or do it for him, and tell them what’s going on. Talking to a guidance counselor may help you figure out how to best help him, but tell someone! Good luck

Answer #2

Thats right you need to encourage him to speak to someone else about this, this is not a good living environment for him to be living in and he needs to get out now! tell him to speak to an authority figure either at school or someone he trusts so the issue is dealt with and he can either be pulled out of that place or his dad will have charges brought against him for being abusive to his children, he cant let his father get away with this, please tell him to confide in somebody for help.

Answer #3

I agree you need to tell someone soon, before your boyfriend is seriously injured or worse.

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