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im in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend told me he cheated on me. he told me he was drunk and a girl went down on him I was hurt very hurt because I really love him. I didnt expect for him to tell me the truth but on the otherhand hr should have neva said it. I wanna dump him so bad but then I wanna keep him because I love him. Now he doesnt call me and I get worried that he’s with another girl tell me what to do ladies and fellas help me

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Answer #1

leave him he is a liar and a cheated you dont deserve you. And if cheated once he is going to do it again and even if they say they wont their lying

Answer #2

Alcohol is no excuse for bad behavior and cheating. He remembers it - so he did it intentionally. He could have stopped her and not put himself in that position - but he didn’t. He wasn’t thinking out you - so why are you thinking about him.

Answer #3

alcohol is an excuse. you need to tell him you are hurt, embarrassed, and offended. long distance is hard. it takes two to make it work. the choice is yours. but if I were you I would break up, as hard as it would be. but I am a differant person so the choice is yours and yours alone. you need to talk to him and figure out what the next step is. I hope you feel better.

Answer #4

Dump him. Long distant relationships are hard enough, but it takes TWO to make a relationship work. Alcohol is NO excuse for cheating! Staying with him will only enable him to do it again! He needs consequences for his actions, and if he knows he can disrespect you, HE WILL! Work on your self confidence Hun, because there are so many guys on this earth, why not find one who will want you, & only you!

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