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Heres how it goes .. my best mate is like my sister we argue fight but love each other... now I don't like to see her hurt :( but right now I can tell shes hurting bad and I dno how to help... I mean its like she feels ugly and not good enough because this boy ( I hate him now ) shes been friends with found out she liked him he stopped talking to her and has blocked her and avoids her :( its crushing her I can tell and its not fair because shes heard that he likes this other girl ( who B!tches about him behind his bk ) and she feels like shes not good enough just because shes not tall blonde and blue eyes ( like the girl he likes ) I meannn I dno what to do hes upset her so much but she still talks about how much she likes him I mean she is beautiful and its killing me to see him be so mean and cold towards her... and I know you wud say oh your her best mate you shud know how to cheer her uppp but I've tried everything :( anyone got any ideas
Why are you coming down so hard on the guy over this? Not wanting to be friends with someone who is constantly mooning over you is perfectly natural, and I'm sure your friend obsessing over him isn't making things any easier for him. He did the right thing here, which is to back away from a situation that was making him uncomfortable. The fact that your friend's feelings are being hurt is not his fault. The fact that he likes someone else is not his fault.
As for your friend, the hurt of rejection will fade quickly, though it seems all-encompassing now. Soon she will find someone else to moon over, someone who actually wants to be mooned over.
ok thanks but I don't think you understand its not just what he did its HOW he did it .. it seemed really mean to me ... I mean I know its annoying having someone pestering I wud be annoyed if some one did it to me but he didnt even notice its only until some one TOLD him he just dropped her and totally ignored her .. hard to explain but yh
yhh your right thanks for the advice thats what I tried to tell her she wont forget him arggghh well I suppose it will take time for her to just GET OVER HIM
talk to her tell her crying is not going to do anything and try getting her anotha guy?
