My best friend commit suicide and its my fault

you did the right thing to say NO … because you didnt take advantage of her being drunk and thats really good.

things happen sumtimes that people cant explain, she might have ha dmore problems with ehr life that nobody knew about?

I’m sorry for your loss, I lost a friend from overdose too. It’s not your fault she was just in a bad place and the drugs took control, don’t blame yourself I’m sure she wouldn’t want you to.

First of all. I am very sorry about your friend… But its not your fault. That suiced note was pointed to you because she didnt want to blame it on herslf. Drugs and achohol are a powerful thing.

its most definetly not your fault. she could’ve done things to help herself but decided not to. I did the same thing with blaming myself stop…

first of all this is NOT your fault drinking can make people do stupid and regrettable things so its likley that she might have liked/loved you or had a crush on you and wanted to sleep with you, and you didnt want to so being drunk she had sex with some random then she might have sobered up and wished she never did that which could have lead her to feel extreemly sad, take coke and want to kill herself thats just something that MIGHT have happened bit even if it didnt, its NOT your faulkt you didnt say “go kill yoursellf” so its not your fault all you did was say no to sex and thats not a crime also your friend could have alreday been depressed or had problems before she got sdrunk that were getting out of control it might be a good idea to talk to her mother maybe get permission to go in her room and have a look at her diary if she has one, that might have something in it or to ask her mum if she told her anything about wanting to die or liking you, ect unfortunatly a lot of kids commoit suicide when there young, usually because there depressed and have problems that arnt usuaklly anything too bad, but they get out of control. and not everyone can deal with there problems normally you need to remember that what happened is not your fault and her saying “I would still be alive if paul would have listened but he didnt so I have no choice”sounds selfish if she killed herself just because you didnt have sex with her it would be helpful to talk about your feelings to someone though because a friends suicide can make you get really sad and even depressed so if you feel like you need to talk about it or get anything of your chest do talk to friends, family, relatives, teachers, counsellors, ect