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My best friend, and my love- and choices I don't agree with

Should I ask him stright, or should I wait until something happens, if it does?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend nearly a year now. We were best friends before that for years. I’ve known him for as long as I can remember- since 2nd grade or something. We love each other, and get along really well. The only problem on earth is alcohol- a lot of my relatives have had problems with it, and I hate it. I was abused for a few years because of a drunk uncle. But my boyfriend would love to drink. So far, he hasn’t, because I asked him not to, and told him I would be very dissapointed in him if he did. Lately though, I’m afraid that he might be considering it more and more. He’s been asking me stuff lately, like what I would do exactly if he did drink, or if I would mind if I was with him when he did. I’m not sure if he’s just being hypothetical because he’s bored, or if he’s considering it. Should I ask him, or not risk the confrentation?

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i would ask him. but not a straight up “are you drinking” kinda question. just act normal and ask him “do you drink” or “have you been considering drinking’ like you would ask him any other question.if he says “yes” then do what you think is right. if he says “no” and you think he might be lying then look for certain looks,gestures,change of voice. and if you know hes lying when he says no, tell him how that effects you and follow your heart. considering you guys have been dating for that period of time you should know/tell when he is lying or telling the truth.(gestures,looks,voice) just follow your heart

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