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How can I just move on?

so far in my dating experience I have only felt so strongly and deeply and in love with one guy..that was about a year ago and since then I find that I am so hesitant and untrusting with guys..since I’ve had one very short relationship that shouldnt have happened and hookups/friends with benefits..I think guys are cute/hott but there really not much more..im still holding on after sooo long and I really dont know why and quite frankly I dont like it at all…I want to move on and get love back without thoughts of my ex…im ready for a boyfriend but I just dont know what comes over me

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Answer #1

Its difficult especially if he was your first real boyfriend. Now he seems like the end all be all, right? Listen, you will find that not every guy you like will be perfect or even boyfriend material. Its okay to hookup and date around, because dating is about finding out what types of guys you are compatible with. You will always have thoughts about your exes (esp. the amazing ones that got away). But you do need to realize that part of dating people is moving on. Right now, you are experimenting and testing guys out, and with that (esp for more serious relationships) means letting go of (but not forgetting) the past. Your distrust may cause you to end a relationship too soon and for all the wrong reasons. Look inside yourself and soon you will be able to trust.

Answer #2

aw this makes me sad D: find a guy who seems nice and build a relationship, nothing too serious at first. hopefull you will slowy move on

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