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if I like a guy, but he wants me to wait for him...should I just move on or what?
oh believe me. I realllyyy like him. it just makes me so mad that I have to sit here and wait on a guy who probably will never come around. aqnd it makes me weaker because he was the stronger person and he got up and said im leaving. and im supposed to just sit here and wait like a clock? I mean, I really like him...but I dont want to waste my time on something that might not come back. plus, theres another guy I knoww...and were kinda gettin close.
just tell him how you feel and that maybe he can bend on his rule. dont pressure him. just ask him if hes ready for sex. you should tell him that you love him and want to have him or do him or him to do you or whatever. if your a virgin you could tell him that you want him to be your first. just see what he says to all of this. I hope I wasnt rude. I was just trying to help. Tina
How does waiting make you weak? If you really want to be with someone and they aren't ready you should respect that and wait till they are ready. It seems a bit selfish to feel like you're getting the short end of the stick, just respect the fact that he's not ready.
By the sounds of it you don't like him as much as you claim.
Tell him how you feel about waiting - if he doesn't care then yes, move on. But if he explains to you why he isn't ready and assures you he will be soon then you should wait.
It completely depends, but hopefully you'll talk to him before deciding :)
If he really liked you, he would date you now...who knows, maybe hes waiting to see what else comes his way. His asking you to wait is unreasonable. I would definitely move on!
he like said he doesent think he needs a girlfriend right now...
and I know. thats what I was thinking. why shoulod I wait. theres pleny of other guys...rightt?
If you have to wait for him then hes not worth it. if he really wanted to be with you, he would be with you now.
It depends Really. because I've like-d this guy for 2 years and he said for me to wait. and im still waitingg
but why should I be the weaker person, and have to wait for someone who im falling out of love with?
he wants you to wait for what? is he going out of town or what exactly?
If you truly like him you'll wait till he's ready.
move on :)