how can i be more flirty this year?

i have a boyfriend thats in college and im gonna be a junior. im still with him and like him a lot but i feel like my whole high school life is being in a serious relationship. im not trying to cheat in any means.. just a cute flirt. im sick and tired ofbeing the cute little nice quiet girl. help!

Answer #1

Talk and hangout with more guys?

Answer #2

starts with convidence start off with doin your hair and makeup more then practise by talking to guys you’ll never see again like at a mall or at the movies that arnt in your area

Answer #3

put yourself out there more, and dont be afraid to be a little loud, and when you talk to the guys play with your hair and smile a lot. then when you walk away give your hips a lil extra swing. i was voted the biggest flirt at my school :p

Answer #4

this is not what u want to hear. but u should take a break, well it will be breaking up with him. u have to experience things that u cant with a bf. also u dont no what else is out there for u if u stay with him. granted u said u stil like him, but u dont want to force urself to stay in the relationship. u gotta experience high school to its max if u would say

Answer #5

I’m forced to agree with breakingfan2006… If you wish for people to see you as a separate entity to your relationship, that is all well and good. But, to be want to portray yourself as an somebody without a relationship, then I doubt your boyfriend would approve, regardless of how much you like him.

Given the question, I’d say you have to make a choice as to whether or not you want a serious relationship or not. Stepping away from morals and what-not, being flirtatious is about confidence and presentation. If you dress up, show a bit of skin (but not so much to take ‘imagination’ out of the equation’), speak in a more out-going (perhaps seductive) tone, etc, then you would definitely have a flirtatious aura about you.

But, you would probably seem more flirtatious and less withdrawn/ half-hearted if you were without a relationship; so I think the real question should be whether or not you want a relationship, or perhaps whether or not you feel that your relationship is holding you back.

Answer #6

wear cloths that guys look at u

Answer #7

thanks guys, its just so hard because i know i have to break up with him because my dad thinks i should… and i want my parents to like my boyfriend. but its so hard because i was naive and stupid and when he was all “ i love u i wanna be with u forever” i just said it back. not thinking things through.it was stupid of me because now hes gonna be like what happened yesterday u were saying i love you and today your breaking up with me? i just dont want it to be horrible and make him so upset. cuz i still do care about him. but i wanna live high school to the fullest , and i cant with him…. idk what to do, and how to d it, its horrible

Answer #8

just go up to guys and start a convo with them like hey there! and just wing it from there:)

Answer #9

there is no more to say after that

Answer #10

i think just being youself will get any ones attention over the top flirting can be a put of so just glam yourself up be confidence n that will b all the flirtin you will need it will just come naturally

Answer #11

hey guys just for u all to know i broke up with himm yesterday, its been pretty hes a little mad at me.. but i think us being apart will actually better our relationship, and honestly i might get back with him just this one day has shown how much i want him

Answer #12

If you’ve broken up, it’s no longer a relationship. There are plenty more fish in the sea, so if you fear that he will continue to misbehave as he did earlier, then maybe it would be wise to give him no further attention at all.

Answer #13

Well iv learned already this year, to be more flirty you just have to strike up a conversation! Lets see well we got a veryyyy cute new boy at our school, id usually just walk by see if he’d say something this time i walked over started a convo and we now text, hang out, and spend loads of time together just because i flirted with him for 5 mins! It truey does work sometimes to make the first move or flirt first

Answer #14

dress with a lil cleavage showing but dont look like a slut umm dont be shy talk to guys and just do the normal flirty stuff

Answer #15

turn on the charm

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