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Here's the thing me and my buddy were at the movies on Saturday and we were sitting close then I noticed that she was sucking her thumb so I told her that its not good to suck your thumb so she started to suck on my thumb! I didn't know how to react. I didn't tell her to stop or anything I just kind of ignored it. How should I have I reacted or what should I do now? Help!
awe...
can I just tell you from a girl's point of view that that is what every girl wants to hear her guy say? that they "don't want to just be another guy or her just to be another girl I would want to be in a long term relationship." you are a rarety, seeing that most guys are afraid to committ.
also, I think this girl just had an overflow of flirtatious energy and it landed on the closest male thing that moved, which happened to be you. sorry. it's not you, it just sounds like she's a player. I would keep things as they are...you already know what she does with guys and you deserve better. start putting tobasco sauce on your thumbs...just in case!
Well I do ot ourightly think she just has one "overflow of flirtatious energy" or anything like that come to think of it what if she did that 2 giv som sort of signal that she might be intrested in him or somethin, I mean don't you think so? I mean girlshave different ways of expressing their intrest in a guy or what do you think?
I think I might like her. The thing is, is that I know the way that she treats guys. She is what you call a player and im one of those guys that have more girls that are friends than I've had that were girlfriends. I don't want to just be another guy or her just to be another girl I would want to be in a long term relationship.
haha... thats something you wouldn't expect her to do...
the question is... did you like it?
if you liked it, it would probably mean, you like her, and you should confirm if she has the same feelings too, it could have also been just playing around..
Wow she sucked on your thumb, cool!, well I thik she likes you thats why she's flirting, so do you like her? I mean do you really like her to be something to you other tha your buddy?
just wait and see what else happens. if she does like you she will probably flirt with you again. you can try something too...maybe just " you look nice today" and see her reaction.