How to get more commitment out of him?

most of the time when you let a guy into a situation like that they never want to change it because he always has you…and he has no shame in having fun when your not around. im not saying he is having fun when your not around but a lot of guys just like the freedom of being able to do what they want if they feel like it. thats usually what we mean when we say were not ready for a relationship. you have 2 options. 1- you keep things the way they are and keep dropping the hints. or you can try the risky option. this is a risk because you can lose him…but I have seen this work more times than it hasn’t. this will also let you know how much he cares about you. you tell him you want something more serious and dont feel right acting like your together anymore. make him make a decision, and make sure you stick to it. you can still be friends, you can hang out as long as you can handle it…he wont be able to, trust me. some guys give in right there, most crack within a week or 2. yeah, theres a chance he wont commit, but that only means he didnt care about you enough for you to care…now if your the deceptive type, you can always do what I just said when your in the middle of hooking up. just stop out of nowhere and say it. you get faster results…kinda mean though.