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HOW DO I GET RID OF MY MOMS BOYFRIEND
Get rid of him? Sounds like a line in some mob movie or something. First of all you have to make sure you aren't just being jealous and selfish. IF your mom is happy, and he's a nice guy you need to give him a chance. I understand him sleeping in your dad's spot could cause you to be upset. Your mom should buy a new bed or something. It is very disrespectful to the kids to do that. Have a talk with mom calmly, and ask her how she is feeling and tell her what you are feeling. Avoid saying things that will back her in a corner and make her act defensive. Don't say things that start like... "You never..." or "You always"... say things like "When you do this I feel..." etc.
I've had the same prob with her first boyfriend caz she said she wanst dating and I walked in and he was on the couch sucking face with my mom so I was like your a whor... anyways dont eat with them dont talk to him (dont ignore just dont make it possible for a convo) listen relax and ull learn to except it a little better I still hate the fact my parents are dating but really sit your mom down and tell her I dont like him dont bring him around when im around and enforce it by calling her out on it
ooomg, haha, my mum and dad have recently split up, and my mum left my dad for this other bloke, hes really nice tho. but I hateee the fact she left my dad, for HIM!!! my mum took everything and left my dad with nothing, for that I hate her guts!!...if you want to get rid of him, yeah just ignore him and keep arguing. x
Do you just want him gone because of who he is to your mom or is it because of WHO HE IS as a person? If it's the 2nd one, talk to your mom about it. If she don't listen, go live with your dad.
But don't be selfish. Your mom have a life too so don't try to get rid of people in her life who is a help to her.
I got rid of my moms husband but it took me almost 2 years. all I did was fight with him a lot and one day he compleatly snapped and shoved me up against a car and staarted yelling in my face about how I was a devil child or some stuff and me and my mom left
oomg I love you. I have the same problem and he's here right now. he sleeps over my house and where my dad use to sleep. and my mom doesnt care how I feel . she yells at me when I tell her I dont want him to be here eatting with us
you dont get rid of them you use them try to catch them doing something and be like ill tell my mom or give me 100 bucks or something else as long as he's there then he'll get tired of it and either tell on him self or just leave
I understand because im having the same problem but if you mom's boyfriend is a jerk like mine the first tell your mom if she doesent listen just hold on and if that does not worl eithe call daddy.