Mom vs. Me

my mom!she doesn’t really acept me for who I am. Like she wants me to turn girle girl and wear earings, hold pursues. Help. What should I do I told her no.

Answer #1

tell her staright up whats on your mind dont let her control you!everyone is different shes your mom but she doesnt have the right to do that to you do a little yelling if iots nesesary! lol well hope I helped =]] ♥

Answer #2

talk to her and make her listen you gotta get it through her head that your happy with the way you r or make her a deal to try being girly for a couple of days if you dont like it then go back to being you and your mom has to deal with it

Answer #3

Just tell her your mind. It is da desire of every mum to see her children happy so tell her politely and with all due respect that you wont b happy if you wear all that. I believe she would hear you out.

gud luck ‘:)’

Answer #4

Maybe she is just trying to bond with you the only way she knows how. Ask her to take you shopping for the kind of clothes you like. I think she would probably want to see your confidence more than your femininity.

Answer #5

Just let her know that’s not who you are. The more someone pushes you do to or be something your not for me anyways it makes me want to do the complete opposite of what everyone is telling me. Your your own person she needs to accept that.

Answer #6

mayb she doesnt like the fact that her child was once a goth, and mayb she thnks that you r not being urself. just try new thngs and try to bond wth her

Answer #7

Tell her that everyone is different and it’s the way you want to be. And that she can’t force you to be something you’re not because the more she does, the more she loses you.

Answer #8

if I were you I would tell her that your not going to do that because thats just straight up not what YOU want to do its your life trust me I’ve had this argument many many times with my dad

Answer #9

Just tell your mom you don’t care for earrings & purses. Tell her you don’t want to be like everyone else, you want to be your own person.

Answer #10

Tell her to mind her own business cause you don’t tell her what to wear and what to do. If you give her that respect she should give it backk.

Answer #11

Sit her down and tell her that you don’t want to be like that. She loves you and will understand. If she doesn’t, call a relative and tell them.

Answer #12

just tell her how you feel

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