Why Is My Mom Mad About What My Boyfreind Said?

I was playing paintball with my boyfriend and some friends. I got shot in the nee, then tripped down a hill. When my boyfriend and mom got their to help out,I said “God Help Me” B/c I had a gash in my leg. Then My BF said “There ain’t a god to help you, doll,You gotta do that yourself.” when he was wrapping my leg with that cloth stuff. And My mom just got pissed off, she was yelling at him and stuff. Plus Paavo(BF) is one those poeple that just doesn’t care if he hurts someone’s feelings,so he pretty much told to go f** her self. That kinda just put her in a shock mode so it shut her up. I talked to him and he went to apologize,but she wounldn’t and SHE’S the one who started it!!! And then she won’t tell why she’s mad! So were like WTF is wrong with you. So do ya’ll have any idea why’s shes mad?

Answer #1

I dont suppose your mother is religious by any chance?

Answer #2

He really shouldn’t treat his girlfriend’s mother in that way anyway. Where’s his respect? If it was the religious aspect that pissed her off then he should have withdrawn his comment and apologised for any disrespect. She shouldn’t have laid into him without proper provocation but to be frank, he shouldn’t be so rude to an adult. It’s disgusting.

Answer #3

I know,I just don’t understand why she got mad. B/c None of this would had happened if she had not yelled at him. And He still did Apologized but she wouldn’t and she started it. Plus she still won’t tell us why she got so mad. AND IT’S BEEN FRECK’N WEEK!!!

Answer #4

If it’s been that long, just get over it? If she’s still mad then you and your mum, without your boyfriend, should have a sit down conversation and talk through why she is mad - she owes you this. but if she has moved on and the only reason it is still an issue is because you keep bringing it up then you should just surprise her with another apology, and ask if everything can be forgotten. i definitely think your boyfriend should apologise profusely for what he’s done - a child should never disrespect an adult, end of.

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