Mom is mean

I’m guessing your older? Probably because you have more responsibility than him and she expects you to know what to do better than he does. Unfortunately, I have no clue how to go about fixing that. Good luck!

It was that way in my family. My Mom always took up for my brother and my Dad sided with me (that’s what I heard anyway). Maybe she’s not blaming it on you as much as she is just siding with him. But, I know, it may as well be the same through your eyes. Sometimes that’s the way life is and though we don’t like it, it happens and we just have to deal with it as well as we can.

Yeah so if you’re the older child you are always given the responsiblity of looking after the siblings that are younger then you. Siblings gain their personalities and qualities from their environment which also includes the people that they interact with. Your mom probably wants you to take care of your brother and make sure that he doesn’t do anythng wrong. You’re just naturally supposed to look after him I guess. And so if he does anything wrong it’s because you weren’t watching to stop him, and your mother probably wanted you to.

Thanks!