Mom is diying

Im so sorry I meant by THE BEST DAUGHTER…

Please get a second opion doctors can be way off the mark & be strong. Praying can bring comfort at times

Pray to God…HE will help You, help your mother everything your able, be happy on what she accomplish, told her everything that your proud of her, you must be proud of yourself…promise her that you will grow up to be the best SON…Make her proud of you…I pity you, I’ll pray for you…

oh! I am very sorry your going through that situation…once the docter told my dad that my mom has about a month to live…but he truned out to be wrong…its been 5yrs…she still lives…all I could say is be next to her…keep her company…bring her food that has a lot of vitmins…calcuim…fiber…protein…and take good care of her…stay positive…

well, I would suggest you to have her checked up with some other doctor, may be, teh same doc. did not tell you right thing. Falling down of bed can be due to many reasons, make her eat drink well, make her +ve and she should survive… keep positive… did it help ?

I agree especially witgh ‘anergoo’ above - show your love in every way you can. Be wityh her, smile and go through with her all sorts of good memories you have from your times together. Try NOT to focus on how sad you’re feeling and how much your worry about losing her - she needs positive thoughts and happy memories to boost her at this terrible time, instead of feeling guilty about leaving you..

By al means, get a second opinion. But if she is a ill as it sounds, you will have to resign yourself to her going - try to make the times that you two have left as good as possible.

keep her in your prayer. it appears that your mom is one who doesnt want you to worry. she is very independent by what I am reading. I was told a few years ago by my own mother that she had cancer and that doctors gave her only 6 months to live. but she faught hard to not give up the will to of living life. I was only 5 years old, and I dont remember this incident. however, this was back in 1993 and she is still alive today. dont give up on her, keep her in your prayer, and know that everything will be okay. I am sure youre mom wants the same thing.

Thank you so much to every one! Her eyes are now glazed over and she cant swallow anything so now she is just on liquid morphine and her o2, they say it wont be much longer. She shocked me the other day when my pastor stoped by she asked for a prayer. And she keeps tilling her best friend that she is ready to go she is just so tired.I have told her it is ok to go now . So now its up to god whom I am talking with a great deal right now. I thought she was going this afternoon because I couldn’t get a b/p but the nurse came out and she is still here for now… Karen

I hope that writing to funadvice members it makes you feel better. Just let it out. I am sorry you are going through such a rough time in life. May prayers go out to you.

Mama K