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ok, so the last few days I really have been like struggling to even get out of bed, like I'll go to bed at 1 and get up at 1, and drag myself to the couch to watch tv for the rest of the day, but the added bonus is that my mom starts saying "why werent you up", "you have responsibilities", and that really jsut frustrates me, how do I just get her to stop getting on my case?
Wow, my mom is the same way. She doen't care if I do something good, but she'll be angry if I don't do something perfect. Even with something that I am happy about. Like if I show her a new drawing, she immediately starts getting on my case about whats wrong with it, then she starts yelling about how "I have other things to do besides drawing." Or when I play soccer, she goes on and on about how "My priorites are mixed up." So, I just started telling myself that I can only do the best I can, there is NOTHING I can do to please people like her, and all that matters is that I am satisfied with myself...even though sometimes I could do better. :)
"I am very responsible, but its like no point in doing anything, if I do it rigth I get no response, the only time she ever cares is if I do something wrong.I should jsut go get some weed and start smoking, at least then she would care"
What, do you want some kind of reward for doing the right thing? In the real world, no one cares if you do things right because TA DAAA...you should be doing things right by default.
I am very responsible, but its like no point in doing anything, if I do it rigth I get no response, the only time she ever cares is if I do something wrong.I should jsut go get some weed and start smoking, at least then she would care
Start being responsible.
