how do i get my mom to let me and my 18 year old boyfriend come in my room when he comes over?? please helpp mehh.

i have done everything, and tha stupid thing is, she let my last boyfriend come in my room, im just like whats the problem now.

maybe your boyfriend has to earn her respect enough to let him do that?

i didnt think of that - thanxx.

well you should wait a while. and when you do have him in your room keep your door open.

im just gunna let him and my mom get closer maybe she will lay off a bit.

get your boyfriend to gain her trust, because if she let your other boyfriend in your room then she would have had to had a connection wich meant she trusted him try and help your boyfrind gain her trust (hope this helped)

well if you r not having sex.. just tell your mom what yout hink about sex at an early age and tell her that u think it is dumb and stupid and that u are embarresed and ashamed that she doesnt trust ua nd that it makes u feel like a little kid!

yeaa, she did say she liked him. im gunna wait and see what happenes. let them connect

thats good

yea, i had to that a few times, just get im to be respectful and polite… and i know its a little grown upy what im sayin but yea.. its the truth

yeaa, nahh i know what yhu meann. i told her everything about him, theres nothing she dont know i guess he gotta prove something to her, idk.

yes that sounds great! :)

haha, i am having sex : ) she dnt know that tho, so im not gunna bring that up. and i think she trusts me its just the boy. yhu know like im 16 and he 18, and hes a boy. yhu knoww. so she already not ckoo wid that, but she cant keep me frm boyss :) but yeaa.

im=him

You could have dinner with your boyfriend and mother (and father and siblings…) so that your family can see that he is a nice guy. Maybe your mother doesn’t trust him, so he must earn her trust. Let her get to know him. Maybe he could fix something around the house for her- that would help her get to like him.

compromise with her. it will also depend on your attitude toward her, and her attitude overall. if she is a strict mom, then that will sure be a challenge. but just ask her to give hr one chance for you to prove yourself to her, you can sasy somethiing like, “come on mom, it on’t hurt you to just try it out. you raised me and should feel like i’m well educated enough for you to trust me” tell her they’ll be rules whatever she wants. and then take it from there. but whatevr you do don’t try to sneak your bf in your room without you tryin yur hardest to convince your mom. beklieve me the least thing you want is to show your mom your not “responsible enough” yet. hope i helped :) it helped me, now my mom let’s my bf in all the time.

Well girly I am a mom too not of a teen yet thank god but I am. I believe that if you and your bf include her in your relationship things will get better. Invite her out to eat with him. Let him open the door for you and for her. Let her see that he is not just a passer by in your life and just try to understand if you are younger than this guy… then yes it will be difficult for her to give you guy privacy. He has to understand that and so do you. Besides that… There is nothing much else you can do, but let time and his manners do the magic, and I really hope his manners are excellent.