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How can I stop crying right now?? :( I cant stop thinking of my dad he died not to long ago help me please
Well ill share some of my past with you. I never had my father around growing up, My parents got divorced when I was very young and my dad was a huge jerk. Anyway my grandfather basicly raised me, he taught me how to shave, gave me my first beer and was always there for my sports games and to help me through tough times. My grandfather passed away about a year and a half ago from cancer, it was probrably the hardest time in my life. Almost 2 years later now I still have a very hard time when the holidays come around and my birthday and all that. But the thing that gets me through it each time I start getting sad is how much I learned from him, I still wake up every morning and shave just like he taught me. I am the man that he taught me to be. and no body can take that away so in a lot of ways he will always be here with me! There is no easy way to stop crying or to not be sad but it really helps me to focus on all of the happy times I had with him!
I am very sorry to hear that :( I guess I cant give you any advice to just stop crying suddenly because the only healer I have learned for these situations is time. Instead or mourning his life you should appreciate the laughter and love, to make you cry as you are now he sounds like a great man who loved you a lot and he would not want to see you like this, so dont feel if you stopped crying it would be wrong to do so because there is nothing more he would want then to see you happy :) once again I am really sorry to hear that hug
OHH THATS so sad.. but honey think about it .. your dad loved you right? he wouldnt want you to live your life sad.. or anything so do it for him! stay strong be the greatest you can be .. and remeber iif your happy with your life, your probably making him happy :). think about if yiou died? you wouldnt want your family to be sad and put there lives on hold just because your gone right?.. :). yes its hard but youll have to manage hope it helps oxoxoxo
ok.. well my dad died 8 years ago..and please take it from someone you know..everyone goes through it sweetie..and it is GOING to take you some time to recover, but sooner or later you will be back on your feet...honestly..I would just say take things one day at a time..honestly if you sit down and think about it...what can you do now?...you cannot cry for the rest of your life.. think positive..and God bless.
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You have my sympathy. I think that you need to distract yourself with some sort of change. Something like joining a new club at school, or I dunno... something to distract yourself, get out of the house, and maybe get a new friend or two out of it.
aww my dad dies almost 5 years ago from cancer it was very hard to stop crying but just ttry to get distracted on something else =o
