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Messed Up Age

Why do I always look at older guys as apposed to my age? I’ve been rolling through crushes..but they’re all in the 20’s! YIKES P.S. If I was to ever “hook up” with any of the guys I like(d), I’m not going to have sex with them til I’m of legal age…I know about stachitory rape.

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Answer #1

Well look at me. I’m 16 going on 17 in may and my boyfriend is 23. I love this guy so much. I think that older boyfriends are more capable of taking care of you and supporting u in time of need. My boyfriend is the first to ever show me what love is. I also said that I was going to wait until I was of legal age but haha lol it just didn’t happen that way lol! Just really get to know this guy as much as you can. Because some people are two-faced and if something happens such as a pregnancy would he really stick right by your side through thick and thin? And could he handle the heat from your parents when they find out about his age? See, in my case, me and him have been dating for 6 months behind my mothers back. And if she finds out about our relationship, man she would…man I don’t even know! Lol! But she wouldn’t like it very much. But I plan on telling her about us when I’m 18. Just take that into consideration. But if you really like this guy, I mean go for it. But how old are you? And how old is this guy? Just be extremley careful about who you tell!!! :) you can fun mail me anytime you’d like

Answer #2

listen im a 23yr old guy dont even go there its only gonna end in tears for you coz men of that age dont like using condoms trust me youll only end up getting pregnant and i dont want that and i know you dont want that trust me on this one :-D

Answer #3

i think that age is just a number. i am in love with a 27 year old man who is the most sweetest guy in the world. i told him that i didnt want to sleep with him untill i turn 18 and if i am ready then we could. he completly understands. there are alot of bad guys out there no matter what there age is. i have been in relationships with guys ages 17-28. and i am 17 years old. you need to be carefull and see what these guys really wnat from you though. and if you are mature enough and respect yourself enough then you can be in a relationship. if you dont respect yourself then you could get hurt. especailly if it is an older guy.

Answer #4

It’s perfectly normal to be attracted to older guys. 2 to 10 years age difference is the most common, but it really doesn’t matter as long as there’s a marriage at some point.

Love is not a crime, in my opinion, but if you’re under the legal age for marriage (18), it’s dangerous for your boyfriend. I’m surprised at how many Americans don’t realize that the government has outlawed marriage in favor of fatherless families. The USA is the most anti marriage place in the world, and they also put more of their own people in prison than all the world’s dictators!

I wish you girls would throw a fit about it and demand the right to choose to be with whoever you wanted. The feminists got girls a lot of rights, but at the same time they took away the right to marry, and nobody noticed.

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