Meeting my Guy Friend is Wrong?

Okay so I have a close guy friend who I haven’t seen in a couple of months and I was planning on meeting him at a pier near a community club on saturday night. Reason why its at night is because I’m going to a party before and he doesn’t get over work till late. So anyway I told two of my friends what I was doing this weekend and when I told them that I was going to drive and pick him up to go there, they started calling me a whoe neutral I think they were serious too because they went on and on how easy to have a guy f*k me when we were alone. But I don’t understand because its a public pier and usually everyone hangs out around there. Plus I will admit that my guy friend and I are very open to about anything and we do talk about sex. Like I am sexually attracted to him but I would never put myself out in public while having sex. My main concern is just seeing him again because I do miss seeing him and its like the only real time he can see me is on weekends. Am I missing something? or like am I wrong to drive myself to meet a guy at a community pier at night?

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Answer #1

There’s nothing wrong with seeing your friend at night. Your friends were just having you on and teasing you (maybe a bit jealous too?). As long as you know him and feel safe then what’s the problem? Have fun :-)

Answer #2

Judging from all your other questions about this guy, I dont understand why you want to hang out at a pier late at night…why not go for a drink somewhere (coffee, soda, cappuccino), or a restaurant? I agree with your friends on this one.

Plus I will admit that my guy friend and I are very open to about anything and we do talk about sex>>Why are you & him talking sex when you’re not even dating? I have tons of guy friends, and we NEVER talked about sex to one another! Why arent you two in a relationship? These are RED FLAGS in my book. Anytime sex is brought up, that always means something…You need to open your eyes to this guy.

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