Meaning of life

my couzin has been trying to commit sucide by cutting his wrist saying it releives pain how do I get him to stop I dont have a good meaning of what life is ?

Answer #1

Everyone was put on this earth to serve a purpose - he just hasn’t found his yet but that doesn’t mean he should give up. Suicide isn’t the easy way out and will just hurt everyone around him. He needs to see a counselor about this, you need to talk to his parents.

Answer #2

Nobody has a clue what life is supposed to mean. We’re supposed to figure that out. Sometimes I think it’s not supposed to mean anything, that it’s just our way of thinking that makes us feel like it’s necessary to have a meaning. I don’t think you can help your cousin in any real way except being around him and talking to him. He needs professional psychiatric help.

Answer #3

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Answer #4

Cutting your wrists doesnt mean you’re trying to kill yourself… Most self harmers know better than to attempt suicide this way (seriously not a reliable way) So are you sure it was a suicide attempt, or a behavior than makes him feel better?

Either way, he needs to see a therapist. If he cuts then something is wrong. If he’s tried to kill himself, then urgent help is important…

You cant give him a meaning to life. Life is about living, being alive… and that has to be worth it. If it isnt, then again, something is wrong… Try and get him to see a therapist…

Answer #5

ohh the cutting phase many adolesents have gone thouugh it ( including me ) but like the girl above said everyone was pit on the wonderful earth for a reason … he just does not know why he is here… yet .. eventually he will feel more comfortable in his skin he will stop cutting and think back why the heck did I ever do that … but I would recomend telling a parent a teacher or whomever you confide with to help your dear cusin because cutting is a life or death situation …

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