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Me and one of my besties fancy the same guy

There is a guy in the year above me who I am really good friends with but I’ve been expereincing further feelings for him. He is a very troubled guy who has a pretty messed up life. To make matters worse, I introduced my friend to him who now also fancies him. To be honest I do not want to have a relationship with him because he does not have a very good record of ‘sticking to just one girl at a time’ but I do not want my friend to get involved with him either. I love them both and do not want to loose either of them. Help me please x

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Tell your friend how you feel about this guy and explain to her why you dont think she or yourself should date him. She might not listen, and in that case you just have to let her take her own chances. She will learn soon enough, and then you can help her through as best you can.

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