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How to speed my boyfriend up about marriage?

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My boyfriend and I have been together 2 1/2 years. I'm in law school, he is in med school 2 hours away. We have an amazing relationship even with our busy lives - we see each other almost every single weekend and are very much in love.

However, I think we are stuck because he doesn't seem ready for the next step - marriage. He seems to blame his hesitation on the busy lives we lead and the distance between us geographically. I understand we are busy right now, but our lives will always be busy. Our geographic issues will be resolved in a year when I finish law school soon and we can be in the same city. How can I talk to him and show him that our lives still have time for love and marriage?

Any advice on how to get a slow-mover to speed up?