Well, i dont know how to feel about this, but when people give me a call its only to tell me to come to visit them another day or to ask me a favor, and i dont know sometimes i just want an honest call somebody who is really worried about me. Maybe im overreacting, but when i hear the phone ringing i always can tell what is it about. What do you think?
Aaahhh! Those types of 'friends', huh? Well, most people have at least one of those. And sadly, some are even family. Which makes it worse. Anyhow.. I'd just be very blunt about it and say what it is that you feel in those moments. Let them know right there and then. Rub it in their face and make them feel bad. Because next time around, they might think first before giving you that type of a call.
Yeah, you have every right to be irritated with "friends" like that. Don't do favors for them unless they act like true friends.