I am totally falling for my employee, issue is I dont know how he feels, we spend all the time at work together but when hes home with his wife I never hear a word from him. What do I do?? He keeps showing me mixed signals, like we went out to a bar but he told his wife he was going out with the guys, then hes going out with his wife on the weekend and lets me know where he is going and tells me I should show up???
ok im sorry , but dont you think he is a player , I mean he lies to his wife thats his business but he wants to drag you to a problem with her by showin up suddenly, besides he is gonna make you look like home wrecker which is you r better than that believe me you deserve much better. if he was settling for divorce id say maybe he found you his love but nooo he is just foolin around, come on get a grip and put some lines that cant be crossed by him. wish you luck sweety ''maybe I was judgemental but thats what I analyzed''
Honestly I would say that if he's married I would back off, its not fair to his wife imagine how you would feel if you were in her shoes, and its not fair to you. He shouldn't be sending you mixed signals in the first place when he has a ring on his finger. From what you wrote he's trying to keep his wife with you on the side, which is wrong. I think what nanofeli said is true, you deserve better.
Doesnt the fact that he is MARRIED tell you to back off? It would be best for everyone involved if you just found your own man!