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my fiance is really mean to me he doesnt care if I cry he yells at me and calls me names and I feel hurt a lot I want real love and I don’t why hes so mean to me we live together im 17 on probation and I really want some advice on what to do?

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Answer #1

How old is the guy? Your ONLY 17, on probation, already moved out, and engaged to be married? Do you know the statistics on teen marriages? More than 60% of teenage marriages fail within 5 years. They DONT work, and the fact that your fiancee is treating you so horribly shows this relationship is NOT going to last! I hope your not getting married because you needed a reason to get out of the house. Marriage is a partnership, it’s not about control. Saying No to your partner as a teenager does not mean saying No forever. If you are truly in love, that love will still be there waiting when you are ready and mature enough to deal with the problems and issues of marriage. If your still hung up on getting married to this disrespectful jerk, then I suggest you get pre-marital counseling!

Answer #2

yea it’s probably not a god thing to have in releationship (ha I cant spell) if he cant respect you now how do you think a marrage is gonna mork out? take it in that you will have to plan your whole life with him involeved. is that what you want a guy you puts you down your whole life untill you cant take it anymore and get a diforce just dont even bother and break up with him now so it wont be any harder then it already gonna be

Answer #3

I think that you shouldn’t marry this guy…y are you even putting up with him…der are a lot of guys out der you should find someone who loves u, care for you and respect u.

Answer #4

break up! dont marry someone who puts you down! =[ I pretty sure thats verbal abuse. find someone who will love you no matter what! good luck =]

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